Hi everyone,
Hope you all had a great week. Me I had a quiet week but a busy weekend which ended with….a 1 lb weight loss on weigh day.
The picture on the left is me on Friday night and on the right Saturday night. To say my confidence is booming is an understatement. I am seeing my for the first time in a long time. I am learning to forgive myself for the way I treated my body in the past, I can’t change that but I can do something for the future. I am also learning to love my body and I think the more I do the more confident I feel. As I said to someone I am one Sexy B*tch and I am not afraid to brag about it. Mr Skinnymilink (Mr Target) looked at the photo of me on the right and he actually said he did not recognize me. In saying that I had 2 great nights out.
So Mr Skinnymilink (Mr Target) made his speech last night. It was a beautiful speech. Excuse the pink wig we were having a Pink night in aid of cancer. I am so proud of my love he is my inspiration. Instead of him not attending group now he is at target he is going to attend every week to support not only hot mama and I but all the girls who have supported him in his journey to Target.
Just want to have a little rant here for a moment. I find it very sad that people say ‘I am there for you through this journey’ or ‘I support you all the way’ but then turn around when you are doing so well and say ‘I think you have lost enough’ or ‘there is nothing of you left’ or worse still ‘sure have a dessert/drink/whatever it won’t hurt you’. Especially the last one as you can feel that you must please everybody, well I for one feel that you should be able to say no to a friend and that they accept what you have said and they also respect you enough to understand that this is something you want for yourself. A true friend would not jepordise your weightloss journey.
Back to the positive as the negative has had enough time. So I have something big happening in the next few days, so fingers crossed the meeting goes well. I know I haven’t reached my own target yet but I want to thank everybody who supports me on my journey.
We also had a guest speaker in group yesterday-Tracy from Kildare spoke to us about her journey-it’s amazing as to how some of my journey is echoed in hers.- and yes I have gotten to the stage of walking around and my knickers falling off (you had to be there). But OMG is that woman absolutely stunning-As I said to a few friends last night when I grow up I want to be like her. But you know what on reflection I don’t want to be like her I want to be like me (jungle book is going around my head right now).
So here is the quote of the week. Another I also saw was Only You stand in the way of your own success.
Hope you all have a great week. check in soon.
Bye